Order of Service and the Seder Meal
Usually the evening before the Passover meal was
eaten, the paterfamilias led his family through the house by candlelight,
looking in nooks and crannies for any leaven in the house. No leaven was
supposed to be in the home at that time. (Not infrequently, Jews would
sell their leaven to their Gentile neighbors and buy it back after the
eight days of unleavened bread!) At the end of the search the father
says, “All leaven that is in my possession, that which I have seen and
that which I have not seen, be it null, be it accounted as the dust of the
earth.
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Seder begins, candles are lit and a prayer is offered to
bless the First Cup of Wine.
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Next all the participants wash their hands
… This was probably the point where Jesus washed His
disciples' feet (John 13:4-12).
As guests and family members entered the home to
celebrate Passover, a servant or slave would often be there to wash their
feet. This was the task of the lowest class of people. (That Jesus did
this in John 13, even though he was the paterfamilias or head of the
family, both symbolizes what he would later do for his disciples [cf. Mark
10:45—“The Son of man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give
my life as a ransom for many”] and embodies his principle that “If anyone
wants to be first, he shall be last of all, and servant of all” [Mark
9:35; and John 13:15].
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First hand-washing: Once all the guests arrive, we will
perform the ritual hand-washing that Jews, from antiquity, have done
before every meal. Table setting: in front of each
seat—four glasses for ritual wine, labeled as such (the non-ritual wine
glass should not be on the table, but should be given to guests after they
arrive and after their feet are washed); one plate,
cutlery, napkin. Several candles on the table.
Seating labels in place. Unleavened bread, vegetables, and vinegar (karpas)
should all be on the table. As well, representative bottles of wine should
be there too, all labeled.
Seating at the Meal
Guests are to recline at table: The ancient near
eastern custom of total relaxation was not too far from our modern “couch
potato with remote control” motif. They would relax around a low table
(about 18” off the ground), sprawled out on pillows, being served by the
help. So, take your shoes off, and prepare to have a good time! Seating at
Passover is assigned: beginning with the head of the family at one end,
the guests are to wrap around the table either from the oldest to
youngest, or the most important to the least important.
The Symbolic
Nature of the Cups
Four ritual cups of wine are used for the Passover.
The Mishnah says that even the poorest man in Israel must drink the four
ritual cups, even if it means selling all his possessions! The wine used
was red and warm A prayer is uttered over each cup, and the four verbs of
Exodus 6:6-7 are recited, one over each cup. The first prayer (the prayer
of sanctification) is uttered by the paterfamilias.... npgh yrp arwb
mluh ilm wnyhla yy hta iwrb “Blessed are you, O Lord our God, king
of the universe, who has created the fruit of the vine. . . . And you, O
Lord our God, have given us festival days for joy, this feast of the
unleavened bread, the time of our deliverance in remembrance of the
departure from Egypt. Blessed are you, O Lord our God, who has kept us
alive, sustained us, and enabled us to enjoy this season.”
Then the first cup of ritual wine is then poured and
the first verb of Exodus 6:6-7 is recited by the father: myrxm tlbs
tjtm mkta ytaxwhw hwhy yna “I am the LORD, and I will bring you out
from under the yoke of the Egyptians.”
The Seder Meal
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The first drink may now be drunk.
Each person now takes some herbs (usually Parsley or
Celery) and dips them in salt water and eats them.
The Karpas (bitter herbs and the first dipping): The
head of the house dips bitter herbs (traditionally lettuce or celery) into
salt water or vinegar. He dips the bitter herb together with the chief
guest of honor (the person on his right), and then the bitter herbs are
passed on down the table. After all partake of the karpas, all food is
removed from the table. This heightens the interest of the evening,
prompting the questions from the youngest son.
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Next, the head of the family takes the middle one of the
three flat cakes of unleavened Matzah bread, breaks one, and lays one part
aside for desert … A description of why three cakes are used and the
middle one broken
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The Haroset is dipped into horseradish and eaten.
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The Youngest child present asks four questions:
…. why tonight?
…. why bitter herbs?
…. why dip the bitter herbs in the salt water
twice?
…. why do we eat reclining?
~Indeed, this night is very
different from all the other nights of the year, for on this night we
celebrate one of the most important moments in the history of our people.
On this night, we celebrate their going forth in triumph from slavery into
freedom.
I am glad you asked the questions you did, for the story of this night
was just what I wanted you to know. Although the
Haggadah we are reading tells this whole story, and if you listen
carefully, you will surely learn it, I should like to tell you here, in a
few words, the answers to your questions.
~ Why do we eat only
mazzah tonight?
When Pharaoh let our forefathers go from Egypt, they were forced to flee
in great haste. Now, they had prepared dough for bread to take on their
journey, but the Egyptians pressed them to hasten out of the land. So
they snatched up their dough, and fled, and had no time to bake it. But
the hot sun, beating down on the dough as they carried it along with them,
baked it into a flat, unleavened bread, which they called mazzah. That is
why we eat only mazzah on Pesah.
~ Why do we eat bitter
herbs on Pesah night?
Because our forefathers were slaves in Egypt, and their lives were made
bitter. That is why we eat bitter herbs on Pesah night.
~ Why do we dip herbs twice
tonight?
You have already heard that we dip the parsley in salt water because it
reminds us of the green that comes to life again in the springtime. We dip
the maror, or bitter herbs, in the sweet haroset as a sign of hope; our
forefathers were able to withstand the bitterness of slavery, because it
was sweetened by the hope of freedom.
~ Why do we recline at the
table?
Because reclining at the table was a sign of a free man in olden times;
and since our forefathers were freed on this night, we recline at the
table.
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The Father recounts the history of Israel from Abraham till
Moses and the giving of the Law with the story of the first
Passover read aloud from Exodus chapter 12 and Psalms
113 and 114 = or the leader will go around the room asking everyone to
reconstruct a part of the story. [What do you remember about your
leaving Egypt?] Each person will tell a part as if he had been a slave
and as if he had actually witnessed the plagues and as if he had actually
crossed the Red Sea on dry ground and then watched Pharaoh's army drown.
Looking at Acts 7:2-38 it is interesting that Stephen’s speech so closely
parallels the kinds of things that the paterfamilias would say at the
Passover that one wonders if this was indeed the message that Stephen, as
head of his own home, would recite at Passover (for at Acts 7:39 Stephen
goes beyond what was to be recited and begins to pronounce his indictment
against the religious leaders).
Father now explains the significance of the lamb,
bitter herbs, and unleavened bread. Singing of the first half of the
Hallel Psalms: Psalms 113-114. Done in one of two ways: father singing the
lines with the family saying “Hallelujah” after each verse, or all singing
the psalms together.
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Prayer over the Second Cup
npgh yrp arwb mlwuh ilm wnyhla yy hta iwrb “Blessed
are you, O Lord our God, king of the universe, who has created the fruit
of the vine. . . . Exodus 6:6b: “I will deliver you from their
bondage”mtdbum mkta ytlxhw
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The Hands are washed again, another blessing is given to the
Matzah, and it is eaten.
“Blessed are you, O Lord our God, King of the
universe, who brings forth bread from the earth. Blessed are you, O Lord
our God, King of the universe, who has sanctified us with your
commandments, and commanded us to eat unleavened bread.”
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The second cup, the Cup of Plagues is filled and passed
round and the plagues mentioned individually
Blood!
Frogs!
Lice!
Flies!
Cattle Disease!
Boils!
Hailstones!
Locusts!
Darkness!
Death of the Firstborn!
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The host breaks the guest of honor’s bread and they dip it
together in the charoseth and bitter herbs. The guest in turn
breaks his neighbor’s bread and they dip it
together, and so on down the line.
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A shank bone is presented as a reminder of the Passover Lamb
(Jesus is the Passover Lamb John 1:29). It was probably
at this time that Judas left the meal after he was
given the sop (John 13:26).
Herbs, the Matzah, hard-boiled eggs, and grapes are
served with the Lamb.
…At this time, Jesus probably took the Matzah that
was laid aside and blessed it and passé it around exhorting his disciples
to remember his body is broken (Luke 22:19).
After the meal, the third cup is poured. The last of
the unleavened bread wafers is blessed, broken, and eaten:
“Blessed are you, O Lord our God, King of the
universe, who brings forth bread from the earth. Blessed are you, O Lord
our God, King of the universe, who has sanctified us with your
commandments, and commanded us to eat unleavened bread.”
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All participants recite the post-meal grace together, and
then the prayer over the wine. “The name of the Lord be blessed
from now until eternity. Let us bless him of whose
gifts we have partaken: Blessed be our God of whose gifts we have
partaken, and by whose goodness we exist.” “Blessed
are you, O Lord our God, king of the universe, who has created the
fruit of the vine. Then the father recites the third
verb from Exodus 6:6: “I will redeem you with an outstretched arm and
with great judgments.” myldg myf n uwrzb mkta ytlagw
Then the wine is drunk.
…At this time Jesus probably passed around the third
cup (called the Cup of Blessing or the Cup of Redemption)after the meal,
and exhorted his disciples to drink all of it for it represents his
bloodshed for sins and represents a new testament. (Luke 22:20)
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The Matzah is eaten for desert.
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The final cup of wine, the Cup of Praise, is drunk as the
Seder meal concludes
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A hymn is sung.
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"Next year in Jerusalem!"
Communion
Reading from Luke 22:14-20
The Matzah will be used for the bread
A cup of Juice will be used for the cup
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